Week 11 ——— The Attitude of John the Baptist
John 3:25-30
We continue to follow Jesus’ 70-week ministry. He was baptized on February 16, went into the wilderness for 40 days, returned to be with John the Baptist, and then headed into the Galilee. He went to a wedding in Cana, performed miracles, and then headed down to Jerusalem for Passover. He had a conversation with Nicodemus. He celebrated Firstfruits and the Feast of Unleavened Bread.
John 3:25 Now a discussion arose between some of John’s disciples and a Jewish leader over purification. And they came to John and said to him, “Rabbi, he who was with you across the Jordan, to whom you bore witness—look, he is baptizing, and all are going to him.” John answered, “A person cannot receive even one thing unless it is given him from heaven. You yourselves bear me witness, that I said, ‘I am not the Christ, but I have been sent before him.’ The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom’s voice. Therefore this joy of mine is now complete. He must increase, but I must decrease.”
There arose a discussion, more literally a debate, between John’s disciples and a Pharisee. They were debating about purification, a topic often discussed among religious leaders at the time. Remember that debate was the usual form of discussion and teaching of the day. We have no reason to believe this was a heated argument. But at some point, the idea that the number of people coming to hear their rabbi, John the Baptist, was dwindling. John had been seeing huge crowds come to him. By any standards used by preachers today, John was incredibly successful. But something had changed. John’s attendance was down. Something was going wrong.
So his disciples came to him and said, “Rabbi, that guy you called the “Lamb of God,” he is copying your ministry and baptizing like you are. He even uses your sermon line, “Repent for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.” And he is attracting our crowd. We are down 30% in baptisms over the past month. We’ve got to do something!
How does John respond?
He could have been very jealous. His life was hard. He was an aesthetic. Jesus went to marriage celebrations, feasts, and parties. Meanwhile, John ate locusts and wild honey in the desert and only had water. He lived in the wilderness. He wore simple clothes. He ends up in prison and is beheaded around 30 years old. It was not easy being John the Baptist.
I imagine John’s response shocked his disciples. They had given up their life to follow John. They believed in his message of repentance. And they had seen people flock to him and commit to the cause by being baptized. Then, his disciples saw Jesus preaching the same sermon that John was preaching, and his disciples were baptized just as they were. Jesus and his followers were stealing their show.
And John says, “This is exactly how it is supposed to be.” John knew his place and he stayed in his lane.
John tells them:
Listen, guys, you’ve heard me say it several times. This Jesus is the Messiah we have been praying for and looking for for hundreds of years. People kept asking me if I was the Messiah. You know I never claimed to be. From the beginning, I told you my job was to prepare the people for the coming Messiah by acknowledging their sins and repenting. And then it was my place to point out the Messiah when he arrived. And you saw him yourself. You know that the bridegroom and the bride are the stars of the wedding day. It is not the best man’s place to upstage the groom. The attendants don’t upstage the bride. The best man is the supporting actor, not the star. A good friend of the groom will only be happy to see the groom come and take his bride.
My ministry was to prepare the way and point towards Jesus. So when Jesus came, it was the happiest day of my life. My joy was complete when I saw Jesus. That is the task God gave me. It is not all about me. —-It is all about Jesus and the kingdom he is building.
Get your attitudes right.
John knows Jesus is the messiah. He knows that Jesus will do amazing miracles and be the great teacher of Israel. But he doesn’t get to follow Jesus. Did you ever wonder why John the Baptist didn’t get to be one of Jesus’ disciples? If I were Jesus, I would have picked John first. He was the most qualified. He understood Jesus’ message. In fact, Jesus picks up John’s message and preaches it verbatim. And John was willing. He had proved he was willing to do whatever God called him to do. However, Jesus did not choose John to be his disciple.
He didn’t get to follow Jesus; he didn’t hear Jesus’ sermons, see his miracles, and perform miracles like Jesus’ disciples. Instead, his path was to preach a bit longer in the wilderness and then be arrested, languish in prison, and be beheaded by an evil king.
This would make most people bitter. It would make most people question God. But how John answers his disciples reveals the attitude of John that we all need to understand and adopt.
“A person cannot receive even one thing unless it is given to him from heaven.”
Do you think we earned anything we have in life? Did you earn the right to live today? Does God owe you another day of life? Did you do something before birth to deserve to be born in this place? Who gave you this land? Who gave you the smarts to achieve what you have achieved?
Some people consider themselves ‘self-made men.’ They came from modest income or poor families and have become very successful in the business world. They are reluctant to support programs for people in need because they feel that everyone else should pick up themselves by their bootstraps as they did. They have forgotten how God gifted them personally to become successful. They don’t understand that some have limited IQ, mental illness, chronic medical problems, or haven’t gotten the “lucky breaks” they got. They think they have done it all themselves. They have forgotten the grace God gave them.
This attitude of John the Baptist is critical to understand. He knew his place. He said he wasn’t even worthy to be a slave to Jesus; he wasn’t even worthy to do the lowest job of a slave – to untie his sandals. But despite his unworthiness, Jesus gave him a place, a job to do. And that gave him joy. Joy came from serving where God placed him.
So he says, “He must increase, I must decrease.”
Look, disciples of John. This has been the plan from the beginning. Our job was to point out the Messiah so he could assume his role. It is not all about us, but it is natural to see the world as if it is all about us.
Francis Chan, in his book Crazy Love, says it so well:
“Even though I glimpse God’s holiness, I am still dumb enough to forget that life is all about God and not about me at all. It goes sort of like this…. Suppose you are an extra in an upcoming movie. You will probably scrutinize that one scene where hundreds of people are milling around, just waiting for that two-fifths of a second when you can see the back of your head. Maybe your mom and your closest friend get excited about that two-fifths of a second with you … maybe. But no one else will realize it is you. Even if you tell them, they won’t care. Let’s take it a step further. What if you rent out the theater on opening night and invite all your friends and family to come see the new movie about you? People will say, “You’re an idiot! How could you think this movie is about you?” Many Christians are even more delusional than the person I’ve been describing. So many of us think and live like the movie of life is all about us. Now consider the movie of life…. God creates the world. (Were you alive then? Was God talking to you when He proclaimed “It is good” about all He had just made?) Then people rebel against God (who, if you haven’t realized it yet, is the main character in this movie), and God floods the earth to rid it of the mess people made of it. Several generations later, God singles out a ninety-nine-year-old man called Abram and makes him the father of a nation (did you have anything thing to do with this?). Later, along come Joseph and Moses and many other ordinary and inadequate people that the movie is also not about. God is the one who picks them and directs them and works miracles through them. In the next scene, God sends judges and prophets to His nation because the people can’t seem to give Him the one thing He asks of them (obedience). And then, the climax: The Son of God is born among the people whom God still somehow loves. While in this world, the Son teaches His followers what true love looks like. Then the Son of God dies and is resurrected and goes back up to be with God. And even though the movie isn’t quite finished yet, we know what the last scene holds. It’s the scene I already described in chapter 1: the throne room of God. Here every being worships God who sits on the throne, for He alone is worthy to be praised. From start to finish, this movie is obviously about God. He is the main character. How is it possible that we live as though it is about us? Our scenes in the movie, our brief lives, fall somewhere between the time Jesus ascends into heaven (Acts) and when we will all worship God on His throne in heaven (Revelation). We have only our two-fifths-of-a-second-long scene to live. I don’t know about you, but I want my two-fifths of a second to be about my making much of God. First Corinthians 10:31 says, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” That is what each of our two-fifths of a second is about. So what does that mean for you? Frankly, you need to get over yourself. It might sound harsh, but that’s seriously what it means. Maybe life’s pretty good for you right now. God has given you this good stuff so that you can show the world a person who enjoys blessings, but who is still totally obsessed with God. Or maybe life is tough right now, and everything feels like a struggle. God has allowed hard things in your life so you can show the world that your God is great and that knowing Him brings peace and joy, even when life is hard. Like the psalmist who wrote, “I saw the prosperity of the wicked…. Surely in vain have I kept my heart pure…. When I tried to understand all this, it was oppressive to me till I entered the sanctuary of God” (Ps. 73:3, 13, 16-17). It is easy to become disillusioned with the circumstances of our lives compared to others’. But in the presence of God, He gives us a deeper peace and joy that transcends it all. To be brutally honest, it doesn’t really matter what place you find yourself in right now. Your part is to bring Him glory-whether eating a sandwich on a lunch break, drinking coffee at 12:04 a.m. so you can stay awake to study, or watching your four-month-old take a nap. The point of your life is to point to Him. Whatever you are doing, God wants to be glorified, because this whole thing is His. It is His movie, His world, His gift.”1
But we tend to make it all about us. We do that even in church. Have you ever heard anyone say, “I really enjoyed worship today” or “I just don’t get much out of the worship there”? That is worship all about us. You aren’t supposed to get something out of worship; you’re supposed to put something in.
Matt Redman tells the story about his song, “The Heart of Worship.” He says that their church was going through some difficult times. There have been all these discussions about the style of worship: some said it was too fast, too slow, too loud, or too soft. “I like that song,” or “I don’t like that song.” “I like the way this worship leader does it.” “The drums are too loud.” “The lights are too bright.” “The preaching lasts too long.” “The songs are old.
People were becoming consumers, judging worship like a product you buy at a store. It was all about them and what they enjoyed. He said we aren’t worshipping to “get something out of it,” but we are supposed to be bringing something to worship.
So this big contemporary church with a professional-level worship band removed the sound system and all the instruments off the stage. They did away with the sermon; they did away with all of it. They told people, “Ask God what you can bring as an offering today in worship.” So, people showed up with their Bibles and nothing else. He said it was very awkward at first. But then people started singing hymns with just voices; someone would read a scripture and testify what God was doing in their life. They discovered true worship. No show. There was no performance on stage. It was all about God. And he said it was good.2
After this experience in their church, Redman wrote the song “Heart of Worship,” which expresses what I feel is the attitude of John the Baptist. Here is the second verse and chorus:
King of endless worth
No one could express
How much You deserve
Though I’m weak and poor
All I have is Yours
Every single breath
I’ll bring You more than a song
For a song in itself
Is not what You have required
You search much deeper within
Through the way things appear
You’re looking into my heart
I’m coming back to the heart of worship
And it’s all about You,
It’s all about You, Jesus
I’m sorry, Lord, for the thing I’ve made it
And it’s all about You,
It’s all about You, Jesus3
True worship is all about God. If we make it about us and what we like, then who is being worshipped? Is it about you or God? Revelation 4 and 5 describe the worship in heaven, with the throne in the center, all the elders, spirits, and creatures, and a rainbow of light around the throne. And who is on the throne? He who is worthy.
Worship is not something you come to church to do. Every moment of your life should be a time of worship because worship is the unworthy recognizing the worthy. We come to church to join together and point out that God alone is worthy. We recognize him as our creator and sustainer, as the one who is love, who is peace, who is grace, who is comfort, who is healing, who is good. He alone is worthy of worship.
The other day, our grandson was at the house and wanted his mother to see what he had done. She was busy talking, and he kept saying Mama, mama, mama, louder and louder until she acknowledged him. With our daughter it was “Look at me! Look at me!” whenever she did something and wanted our attention. That is natural for a child. Apparently, it is also natural for anyone on social media.. Look at me! I got a new car! Look at me! My son got an award! Look at me! My daughter’s going to the prom! Look at me! I went on a trip! I guess it is natural for all of us. Now, don’t get me wrong. I enjoy keeping up with what is going on with my friends and past acquaintances. There is nothing wrong with that. But our job on this earth is not to point to ourselves but, like John the Baptist, to point to Jesus. So keep posting all of that. But perhaps, sometimes, you could say, ‘Look at Jesus! Look what he did today!’ That might make Facebook a little more worth looking at.
You have a place in the kingdom. You matter. Yeah, it is not all about you. You are not the star. But you are more than an extra in this movie of life. You are more than a background actor. There are no small parts in God’s world. You have a speaking role. You can contribute to the kingdom if you understand your place like John the Baptist and fulfill the role God has given you. Everyone take your hand and point. You can point at yourself or some other person… but point up. This is what we are to do.
Like John, our job is to stand and point out Jesus. He must increase. I must decrease.
Every church has a place in the kingdom. Some churches will never be a huge mega-church. Many will never be a Saddleback or a Northpoint or as numerically successful as other churches in their area. But every church has a place in the kingdom. Our job is to seek God’s plan, seek His will, know our place, and fulfill our role to point to Jesus. Churches fail when they advertise themselves. ‘Look at how great our church is! We have great music, a good preacher, great facilities, and wonderful programs.’ Slow down the self-promotion bus! All churches should exist to point not to themselves but to point to Jesus. If we spend a lot of time promoting ourselves or our church, we are failing in our mission to make everything about Jesus. And our job at church in this community is to help others learn to point to Jesus.
Let me tell you about Tommy. Someone I met who taught me about all about pointing to Jesus. One of my life’s most meaningful worship experiences happened with him in an unusual place. It was in the middle of nowhere, in Northern Ghana, Africa. There was not a village for miles. I rode out with the pastor. Tommy had no training as a pastor. He was a diesel mechanic. He retired from his diesel business in Alabama and would come with his wife 3-4 times a year to service the diesel generators for the Baptist Hospital there. There was initially no other electricity. They depended on the generator. When his wife passed away, Tommy left Alabama and moved to Ghana to do maintenance at the hospital. Tommy had an important job. But God had more for Tommy.
Tommy loved people, but he loved Jesus even more. He started off plowing fields for people living in a remote area near the hospital. He had the only tractor anywhere around. He kept little spiral notebooks in his pocket and wrote down words he didn’t know. He taught himself the Manpruli language. And he started three preaching points. I was there on a medical mission trip, and he invited me on a Sunday morning to go with him. He picked me up in his truck, and soon, it was filled with people we had met on the dusty roads. Everyone knew Tommy. Everyone. On the way to the church, we must have picked up and dropped off 30 or more people here and there. Then we left the area of villages and went 4-5 miles out further. We stopped by a solitary mango tree in an empty field. As far as I could see, there was nothing in all directions. But in a few minutes, I could see people walking miles away from every direction. They had seen the dust his truck kicked up and knew it was time for church. We waited about an hour and a half for everyone to have time to walk the 3-4 miles to where we were. While we waited, Tommy told me what he would preach about because I didn’t speak the language.
Then it started. And people spontaneously started praising God. They clapped, beat the drums they brought, and they danced. And it was beautiful. Tommy would tell me what the song was about now and then, but I didn’t need the explanation. It was worship. It was recognizing a God who had been so good to them. There was a good mango crop that year, and they were thanking God. After about an hour or so of praising God, they all sat on the ground and listened to Tommy tell them how God was the creator and how the idols often worshiped in the area were just wood made by man. And they listened. And they responded. And several stood and bore witness. And I was blessed beyond measure to see people I couldn’t understand point to Jesus.4
The attitude of John the Baptist.
John’s role was to speak the truth and die for it. He had known the crowds at one time. He was ‘the next best thing,’ people flocked from the cities to hear him preach. But then the crowds were gone, and he saw his flock dwindle. Then he was arrested and beheaded. His life had been hard, but the last years were miserable in Herod’s prison in Machaerus. Most people who spoke of John would say he was a 30-year-old failure, a has-been who didn’t live up to his potential. He had few followers and few friends.
But there was one who gave him praise.
Matt. 11:11 Truly, I say to you, among those born of women there has arisen no one greater than John the Baptist.
It does not matter what the world thinks of you or if you are successful in the eyes of this world. What matters is what Jesus thinks of you. There is only one affirmation we should seek, and only one matters. I care not what the world thinks of me. There is one voice I want to hear. I have wasted too much of my life seeking praise from others. I want to hear Jesus say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”
What about you? Let’s all seek to live lives that point to Jesus. Let our worship be all about Him, not about us. Let our very attitude be that He must increase, and I must decrease.
- Chan, Francis. Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God. (2013) Kindle location 231.
- Interview with Matt Redman, BBC Radio 2013.
- “Heart of Worship” by Matt Rodman, 1999.
- I pray for God’s richest blessings on Tommy Harrison. In a single Sunday morning, he taught me more about living for Jesus throughout your life, humility, and true worship than I could have ever learned anywhere else. He had an immeasurable impact on so many people during his time in Ghana.












